Wedding bells? Euw
Mar. 30th, 2013 01:07 am![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
marchan89*WARNING: This is a rant*
It's 1 am here and I just arrived home from my grandma's. Looks like I need a plan. Not only my mom is getting anxious about me, even my grandma and my aunt are intervening! The moment we got out of the car, Aunt Aida quickly came up to me and pinched my cheeks as if that was the most natural thing to do. Lo and behold, I should have suspected her sudden guzzles and eerie closeness when she whispered about her son to me. I don't think I want to entertain that idea, especially I never see him that way and the fact we are both too different in terms of personality and background. Even grandma used the same approach when we both went grocery shopping that night. At this age, I'm supposed to be willing to talk about this. Yet now I'm beginning to cringe how society is imposing the idea so hard on us. Please, we have our own pace. Let us do it our own way.
It's 1 am here and I just arrived home from my grandma's. Looks like I need a plan. Not only my mom is getting anxious about me, even my grandma and my aunt are intervening! The moment we got out of the car, Aunt Aida quickly came up to me and pinched my cheeks as if that was the most natural thing to do. Lo and behold, I should have suspected her sudden guzzles and eerie closeness when she whispered about her son to me. I don't think I want to entertain that idea, especially I never see him that way and the fact we are both too different in terms of personality and background. Even grandma used the same approach when we both went grocery shopping that night. At this age, I'm supposed to be willing to talk about this. Yet now I'm beginning to cringe how society is imposing the idea so hard on us. Please, we have our own pace. Let us do it our own way.
